PATYCON

Someone once said to told me “ I will “support “ your kids but not doing it for you , around you or with you” and how that made me chuckle. Ok then good luck trying I said in my heart and walked away . Not because I wanted to be rude not because I am rude or proud or daring or challenging or boastful but sincerely just because 😂. Permit me chuckle 🤭. Just permit me chuckle . Now one thing I am fully aware of and think as a twin parent is extremely important is knowing that I am my own individual person separate from my kids and have my own path in life and adventures and experiences and life and so does my twins . I will always know and remind myself thy are two individuals with different genetics, mindset , way of life and will each have their on individual experiences and life . But there is nothing that I’ll happen to my kids that won’t directly affect me . There is nothing that happens to a mothers child that doesn’t have an effect ( positive or negative on her ) and in my case it’s double 🤭.I mean she carried them for 37 weeks in her womb, 12 lbs , she protected them ,she birth them, she gave up her body her essence her life ,her all for them . There is no them without her . There is no her without them . You can never love them without her , you will never and can never love her without them . You can never separate her from them and you can definitely never separate them from her . I am curious to see what force is greater than the force of attraction between a twin mother and her children,  what force stronger than one uterine wall holding two placentas and two umbilical cord at the same time 😊, what force greater than the force of blood bumped from one a heart to two hearts at the same time , what force greater than the gravitational pull streams of breast milk flowing from her enlarged mammary glands powered by her increase levels of prolactin and oxytocin to every tissue and cells of two babies at the same time. What force greater than LOVE that she laid her body down flat to be cut into half for them to be brought to life, what force greater than the LOVE that she gave her life willingly for their lives , her bone for their bones . For if God is LOVE and if LOVE is the force that bonds her to them , then surely there isn’t any force greater this 😊.  You cannot claim to love them but hate her 🙄.  You either love all 3 or you hate all 3 . There is no either 😂. You can’t love two and hate one or hate one and  love 2 😅. There is something about a twin mother and her twin children that is supernatural , extremely auspicious and honestly spiritual ( trust me I know exactly what it is but that will always be a secret between a twin mama and her twins 😊) . This twin world is indeed a world of it’s own . Finding words to express or describe it fails me . I am grateful honored humbled and most especially Graced to be part of it 😍. Gratefully Graced 🙌🏽
Thank you my dear readers for always reading my truths and experiences. I always knew two people would read these stories . Myself and one other person 😅. But you all take out time to read my shenanigans I am grateful. I hope this truths bring about a smile , or evoke an emotion that makes you feel better , know you are not alone or one that prompts you to criticize constructively and most especially that it reminds you to be grateful for just the fact hat you able it read this is a reason to be grateful. And for my girls my little cuties , should you someday read mummy’s truths , may it serve as a reminder that she adores you both and is grateful to you both for making her a twin mum. Whether it brings an “Awwww “ or an “ Ewwwww” 😅 . Mummy is grateful always ! Love you my girls . 

Are there some twin traditions , stories , cultures , beliefs or experiences that you have read about , know about , have experienced or are aware of . Kindly share my dear readers for I will love to read as well . Thank you . Always remember! Seasons and phases pass and lead to the birth of new seasons and adventures. Be grateful for every season 😍.